has your so call buyer had problems paying,is it dragging out ? be careful ? why ?
if this sale seems to be going on,has the seeming nice,buyer contacting you regularlly? it may seem all fine,not always the case,
Did you know,if you dont report an unpaid item within a certain amount of time ,the dispute period closes.YOU MAY THINK ALL SEEMS WELL,BUT........
BUYERS WILL DRAG OUT PROCESS JUST SO YOU CANT OPEN OR FINALISE THE DISPUTE.
ENSURE YOU CHECK THIS
WHY FOOT THE BILL,LISTING ETC,NOT EVEN TO GET BACK FEES.
buyers ,some crafy,do know this,they may seem very friendly ,explaining problems,all may not intensionally be to stop you opening a dispute or making ebay demand refunds if youve not received an item,i was patient ,a seller had told me several times they would send my paid for item,then again,then refund,by the time i decided,THIS IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH,i was told it has been over a certain gap between sale and i was too late to claim or even open a genuine dispute.
Even if you believe ,buyer or seller genuine,explain the fact,you are sorry but in your own interest you must open a dispute to cover yourself.Dont forget you can close a dispute anytime,the long term outcome doesnt have to be hostile or negative,its for your own benifit.