In reply to the message about FVF's. Ebay will not let you start an Unpaid item dispute until 1 week from the end of auction date. So by putting in the description that the item is to be paid for within 7 days or negative feedback will be let is ok but it does not let you start any dispute even if you have made contact with the seller(time waster) and you know he/she never had any intention of completing, which happened to me recently in fact the top four bidders have all been sent second chance offers but none have responded (not even out of courtesy).
So its appears from what the previous message said is that even though the item sold to a time waster I will not get my fees back .
I think ebay needs to sort this problem out to prevent honest and truthful ebays from wasteing money this way.