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Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love: Relationship Repair in a Flash by Dreyfus

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Publication Date
2013-01-03
Pages
384
ISBN
0399162003

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Product Identifiers

Publisher
Penguin Publishing Group
ISBN-10
0399162003
ISBN-13
9780399162008
eBay Product ID (ePID)
143542609

Product Key Features

Book Title
Talk to Me like I'm Someone You Love, Revised Edition : Relationship Repair in a Flash
Number of Pages
384 Pages
Language
English
Topic
Love & Romance, Communication Studies, Marriage & Long-Term Relationships, General, Conflict Resolution, Psychotherapy / Counseling, Interpersonal Relations
Publication Year
2013
Features
Revised
Genre
Family & Relationships, Language Arts & Disciplines, Psychology
Author
Nancy Dreyfus
Format
Trade Paperback

Dimensions

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0.7 in
Item Weight
14.3 Oz
Item Length
7.1 in
Item Width
7 in

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Trade
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"Just about any couple using this material could humanize their relationship." -Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want "Nancy Dreyfus and her flash cards were an inspiration behind our research into the important process of attempting to change the affect during marital-conflict resolution." -John Gottman, Ph.D., author of The Relationship Cure "The most crucial relationship advice book since Men Are from Mars ." -Erin Meanly, Glamour.com "Veteran psychotherapist Nancy Dreyfus has written an insightful guide that highlights the power of written messages to diffuse tension and put an end to conflict" - Tucson Citizen  , "Just about any couple using this material could humanize their relationship." --Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want "Nancy Dreyfus and her flash cards were an inspiration behind our research into the important process of attempting to change the affect during marital-conflict resolution." --John Gottman, Ph.D., author of The Relationship Cure "The most crucial relationship advice book since Men Are from Mars ." --Erin Meanley, Glamour.com "Veteran psychotherapist Nancy Dreyfus has written an insightful guide that highlights the power of written messages to diffuse tension and put an end to conflict" -- Tucson Citizen, "Just about any couple using this material could humanize their relationship." -Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., author of Getting the Love You Want "Nancy Dreyfus and her flash cards were an inspiration behind our research into the important process of attempting to change the affect during marital-conflict resolution." -John Gottman, Ph.D., author of The Relationship Cure "The most crucial relationship advice book since Men Are from Mars ." -Erin Meanley, Glamour.com "Veteran psychotherapist Nancy Dreyfus has written an insightful guide that highlights the power of written messages to diffuse tension and put an end to conflict" - Tucson Citizen  
Grade From
Twelfth Grade
Edition Description
Revised edition
Synopsis
"The most crucial relationship advice book since Men Are from Mars ." --Erin Meanley, Glamour.com Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love is a brilliant interactive relationship tool that can help couples stop arguing and begin healing. Couples therapist Nancy Dreyfus hit upon this revolutionary practice during a particularly angry couples-therapy session in which a wife's unrelenting criticism of her husband was making him more and more emotionally withdrawn. Suddenly, Dreyfus found herself scribbling on a scrap of paper, "Talk to me like I'm someone you love," and gesturing to the husband that he should hold it up. He did, and within seconds, the familiar power differential between the two shifted, and a gentler, more genuine connection emerged. This revised edition features two new sections--one on making love and another on deepening trust--containing over 25 new "flash cards for real life," written statements that hold the power to express what we wish we could say to the person we love but for which we can't find either the right words or the right tone in which to say them. Each of the statements in this book is accompanied by "field notes" from the author that explain when, why, and how to use the statement, as well as real-life stories from the author's practice., No matter our attachment style, we all crave connection with our partners. Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love is a brilliant interactive relationship tool that can help couples stop arguing and begin healing. Couples therapist Nancy Dreyfus hit upon this revolutionary practice during a particularly angry couples-therapy session in which a wife's unrelenting criticism of her husband was making him more and more emotionally withdrawn. Suddenly, Dreyfus found herself scribbling on a scrap of paper, "Talk to me like I'm someone you love," and gesturing to the husband that he should hold it up. He did, and within seconds, the familiar power differential between the two shifted, and a gentler, more genuine connection emerged. This revised edition features two new sections-one on making love and another on deepening trust-containing over 25 new "flash cards for real life," written statements that hold the power to express what we wish we could say to the person we love but for which we can't find either the right words or the right tone in which to say them. Each of the statements in this book is accompanied by "field notes" from the author that explain when, why, and how to use the statement, as well as real-life stories from the author's practice., No matter our attachment style, we all crave connection with our partners. Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love is a brilliant interactive relationship tool that can help couples stop arguing and begin healing. Couples therapist Nancy Dreyfus hit upon this revolutionary practice during a particularly angry couples-therapy session in which a wife's unrelenting criticism of her husband was making him more and more emotionally withdrawn. Suddenly, Dreyfus found herself scribbling on a scrap of paper, "Talk to me like I'm someone you love," and gesturing to the husband that he should hold it up. He did, and within seconds, the familiar power differential between the two shifted, and a gentler, more genuine connection emerged. This revised edition features two new sections--one on making love and another on deepening trust--containing over 25 new "flash cards for real life," written statements that hold the power to express what we wish we could say to the person we love but for which we can't find either the right words or the right tone in which to say them. Each of the statements in this book is accompanied by "field notes" from the author that explain when, why, and how to use the statement, as well as real-life stories from the author's practice.
LC Classification Number
HQ801.D762 2013

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