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When Dad Hurts Mom: Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse

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ISBN
9780425200315

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Publisher
Penguin Publishing Group
ISBN-10
0425200310
ISBN-13
9780425200315
eBay Product ID (ePID)
43394464

Product Key Features

Book Title
When Dad Hurts Mom : Helping Your Children Heal the Wounds of Witnessing Abuse
Number of Pages
384 Pages
Language
English
Topic
Abuse / Domestic Partner Abuse, Abuse / General, Abuse, Parenting / General, Applied Psychology
Publication Year
2005
Genre
Family & Relationships, Self-Help, Psychology
Author
Lundy Bancroft
Format
Uk-B Format Paperback

Dimensions

Item Height
1 in
Item Weight
13.6 Oz
Item Length
8.9 in
Item Width
6 in

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Reviews
"If you have a child who has seen or heard abuse, this book is for you."--Patricia Evans, author of Teen Torment: Overcoming Verbal Abuse at Home and at School "The perfect, long-awaited guide for mothers who have been abused...also essential reading for every social worker, custody evaluator, guardian ad litem, custody attorney, child protection worker, and judge."--Joan Zorza, Esq., editor, Domestic Violence Report "The system to protect the abused is seriously flawed. Bancroft helps mothers win the battle using the court's rules while empowering them to write new ones."-- The Cleveland Plain Dealer "A gift to mothers who are in abusive relationships. With exceptional compassion and deep understanding, Lundy Bancroft helps abused mothers understand how their children are affected by an abuser's attitude and behavior, and empowers them to...help their children heal...I strongly recommend the book to mothers who are currently being abused or who have been abused in the past, as well as to therapists who work with abused women and their children."--Beverly Engel, MFT, author of The Emotionally Abused Woman and Loving Him Without Losing You   "Wonderful--this book covers the most important concerns facing an abused mother, in a friendly and compassionate tone that helps women avoid self-blame, while empowering them to promote their children's well-being."--Mo Therese Hannah, Ph.D., psychologist, Siena College
Dewey Edition
22
Grade From
Twelfth Grade
Grade To
UP
Dewey Decimal
362.82/923
Table Of Content
When Dad Hurts MomPreface One: Partner Abuse Through Children's Eyes and Ears Part I: The Abusive Man and Your Children Two: The Abusive Mindset and Children Three: Abusive Men as Parents Four: Understanding Your Children's Inner World Five: Protecting your Children's Boundaries Part II: The Abusive Man and Family Dynamics Six: A Weekend with the Abbott Family Seven: Defending Your Role as Mother Eight: Maintaining Healthy Dynamics in Your Family Nine: To Leave or Not to Leave Ten: Dealing with Child Protective Services Part III: The Abusive Man and Your Children Post-Separation Eleven: What Separation and Divorce Mean for Your Children Twelve: Abusive Men as post-Separation Parents Thirteen: making your Way in the Family Court System Part IV: Children Moving Forward Fourteen: Helping Your Children Heal Fifteen: Empowering your Children Sixteen: Stopping the Cycle of Abuse Resources Hearing the Personal Accounts of Abused Mothers Index
Synopsis
Written by a therapist who specializes in abusive men, this guide reveals how abusers interact with and manipulate children--and how mothers can help their children recover from the trauma of witnessing abuse. Can my partner abuse me and still be a good parent? Should I stay with my partner for my children's sake? How should I talk to my children about the abuse and help them heal? Am I a bad mother? Mothers in physically or emotionally abusive relationships ask themselves these questions every day. Whether it's physical or "just" emotional abuse, whether it's aimed at them or you, whether they see or hear it, your kids need you. This book, the first ever of its kind, shows mothers how to: * Protect children and help them heal emotionally * Provide love, support, and positive role models, even in the midst of abuse * Increase their chances of winning custody * Help their kids feel good about themselves "A must-read for every mother who has been abused...it offers the knowledge women need to protect their children and help them heal."--William S. Pollack, Ph.D., author of the national bestseller Real Boys, Written by a therapist who specializes in abusive men, this guide reveals how abusers interact with and manipulate children--and how mothers can help their children recover from the trauma of witnessing abuse. Can my partner abuse me and still be a good parent? Should I stay with my partner for my children's sake? How should I talk to my children about the abuse and help them heal? Am I a bad mother? Mothers in physically or emotionally abusive relationships ask themselves these questions every day. Whether it's physical or "just" emotional abuse, whether it's aimed at them or you, whether they see or hear it, your kids need you. This book, the first ever of its kind, shows mothers how to: - Protect children and help them heal emotionally - Provide love, support, and positive role models, even in the midst of abuse - Increase their chances of winning custody - Help their kids feel good about themselves "A must-read for every mother who has been abused...it offers the knowledge women need to protect their children and help them heal."--William S. Pollack, Ph.D., author of the national bestseller Real Boys
LC Classification Number
HV6626.2.B254 2005

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