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About this product
Product Identifiers
PublisherSchool of LIFE Press, T.H.E.
ISBN-101912891115
ISBN-139781912891115
eBay Product ID (ePID)20038536435
Product Key Features
Book TitleArguments
Number of Pages80 Pages
LanguageEnglish
TopicMarriage & Long-Term Relationships, Sociology / General, Anger (See Also Self-Help / Self-Management / Anger Management), Interpersonal Relations
Publication Year2020
GenreFamily & Relationships, Social Science, Psychology
AuthorThe School of Life
Book SeriesThe School of Life Love Ser.
FormatHardcover
Dimensions
Item Height0.8 in
Item Weight6.7 Oz
Item Length6.1 in
Item Width4.3 in
Additional Product Features
Intended AudienceTrade
Dewey Edition23
Dewey Decimal646.782
Table Of ContentIntroduction A brief history of arguments Types of arguments One: The Interminable Argument Two: The Domestic Argument Three: The Defensive Argument Four: The Spoiling Argument Five: The Pathologizing Argument Six: The Escalation Argument Seven: The Eve-of-Journey Argument Eight: The Absentee Argument Nine: The Identity Argument Ten: The Argument of Normality Eleven: The Parental Resemblance Argument Twelve: The Argument from Excessive Logic Thirteen: The Attention-Seeking Argument Fourteen: The Paraphrase Argument Fifteen: The Argument in Paradise Sixteen: The Sulk Argument Seventeen: The Crush Argument Eighteen: The Lost Item Argument Nineteen: The Argument from Guilt Twenty: The No-sex argument Conclusion: Towards less bitter arguments
SynopsisAn average couple will have between thirty and fifty significant arguments a year, and yet we're seldom taught very much about why they happen and how they could grow a little less intense. This is a guide to arguments in love: it teaches us why they might occur, what their symptoms are, how we could learn some wiser ways of communicating and how we would ideally patch up after a fight. The book looks at twenty of the most common arguments - including ones about sex, money, in-laws, who is 'cold' and who is 'over-emotional' and the state of the bathroom and the finances. We recognise our own antics but also pick up consoling and wise ideas on how to skirt certain conflicts going forward. The tragedy of every sorry argument is that it is constructed around a horrific mismatch between the message we so badly want to send ('I need you to love me, know me, agree with me') and the manner in which we are able to deliver it (with impatient accusations, sulks, put-downs, sarcasm, exaggerated gesticulations and forceful 'f*** yous'). A bad argument is a failed endeavour to communicate; this is a definitive guide to how we might argue better.