If you just prefer a 'light touch' then this is suitable, it is made from a soft and pliable but shiny substance which works well with a lubricant and the ears are wobbly and tickly when it's switched on. Easy to remove the vibrating part for washing/cleaning. It perhaps could do with being a little bit bigger overall but it does the job and is easy to switch on/off and use, I would definitely recommend it and I've bought a 2nd one to keep at my boyfriend's place. Keep it away from the kids though, they'll think it's a toy!!