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Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get On with Life by Margalis Fjelstad (Paperback, 2014)

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People with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorders have a serious mental illness that primarily affects their intimate, personal, and family relationships. Often they appear to be normally functioning at work and in public interactions, and Narcissists may even be highly effective, in the short term, in some work or social situations. However, in intimate relationships, they can be emotional, aggressive, demeaning, illogical, paranoid, accusing, and controlling-in the extreme. Their ability to function normally or pleasantly can suddenly change in an instant, like flipping a switch. These negative behaviors don't happen once in a while, they happen almost continuously in their intimate relationships and most often, and especially with their Caretaker family member. Here, Margalis Fjelstad describes how people get into a Caretaker role with a Borderline or Narcissist, and how they can get out. Caretakers give up their sense of self to become who and what the Borderline or Narcissist needs them to be. This compromises the Caretaker's self-esteem, distorts their thinking processes, and locks them into a Victim-Persecutor-Rescuer pattern with the Borderline or Narcissist. The book looks at the underlying rules and expectations in these relationships and shows Caretaker's how to move themselves out of these rigid interactions and into a healthier, more productive, and positive lifestyle-with or without the Borderline/Narcissistic partner or family member. It describes how to get out of destructive interactions with the Borderline or Narcissist and how to take new, more effective actions to focus on personal wants, needs, and life goals while allowing the Borderline or Narcissist to take care of themselves. It presents a realistic, yet compassionate, attitude toward the self-destructive nature of these relationships, and gives real life examples of how individuals have let go of their Caretaker behaviors with creative and effective solutions.

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Rowman & Littlefield
ISBN-13
9781442238329
eBay Product ID (ePID)
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Subject Area
Clinical Psychology
Author
Margalis Fjelstad
Publication Name
Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get on with Life
Format
Paperback
Language
English
Subject
Psychology
Publication Year
2014
Type
Textbook
Number of Pages
232 Pages

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229mm
Item Width
152mm

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Margalis Fjelstad
Topic
Popular Psychology
Country/Region of Manufacture
United States

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by elendelisi-bark...22 Jan, 2020
Great guide to narcissist relationships
I give this book a ten out of ten it’s the best one I have read so far on narcissism and it covers every aspect of narcissism relationships with anyone so I give this book a ten out of then on every level. It’s very informative and it’s very well written.
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Amazing insight
I have recommended this book to many people since I read it three year's ago. It is essential reading for anyone who is or has been affected by a border line or narcissist personality.
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