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Nice Girl Syndrome : Stop Being Manipulated and Abused -- and Start Standing up for Yourself by Beverly Engel (2008, Hardcover)
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Product Identifiers
PublisherWiley & Sons, Incorporated, John
ISBN-100470179384
ISBN-139780470179383
eBay Product ID (ePID)64461257
Product Key Features
Book TitleNice Girl Syndrome : Stop Being Manipulated and Abused -- and Start Standing Up for Yourself
Number of Pages256 Pages
LanguageEnglish
Publication Year2008
TopicPersonal & Practical Guides, Abuse / General, General, Personal Growth / Self-Esteem
GenreFamily & Relationships, Référence, Self-Help
AuthorBeverly Engel
FormatHardcover
Dimensions
Item Height0.9 in
Item Weight16.4 Oz
Item Length9.5 in
Item Width6.4 in
Additional Product Features
Intended AudienceTrade
LCCN2008-008382
TitleLeadingThe
Table Of ContentAcknowledgments. Introduction. Part One: Strong Women Aren't Nice. 1. The High Price of Being Too Nice. 2. How did We Get So Nice? 3. The Ten False Beliefs That Set Women Up to Be Used and Abused. Part Two: From False Beliefs to Empowering Beliefs. 4. Stop Putting Other's Feelings and Needs ahead of Your Own. 5. Stop Believing That Being Nice Will Protect You. 6. Stop Worrying about What Other People Think of You. 7. Stop Trying to Be Perfect. 8. Stop Being Gullible and Naive. 9. Start Standing Up for Your Rights. 10. Start Expressing Your Anger. 11. Learn How to Handle Conflict. 12. Start Facing the Truth about People. 13. Start Supporting and Protecting Yourself. Part Three: From Nice Girl to Strong Woman. 14. The Four C's: Developing Confidence, Competence, Conviction, and Courage. References. Index.
SynopsisA noted therapist helps women overcome the pressure to please and begin living life on their own terms Engel s new book tackles the nice girl syndrome for women who have been raised to please those in their lives at home and at the workplace., Praise for Beverly Engel For The Nice Girl Syndrome "Engel, a psychotherapist and domestic violence expert, has sharp words for the nice girls of the world who care more about being perceived as sweet and pleasant than strong and self-protective. Drop the phoniness and passivity, she exhorts, arguing that while society superficially rewards nice girls, they suffer deeply in their intimate and work relationships by losing personal power and parading inauthentic selves. Avoiding conflict and playing naïve may seem to offer payoffs, Engel notes, but the payoffs arent as big as the price women pay for not holding their ground They may get taken care of but they arent respected. They may get special attention but from the wrong kind of people. Readers will find Engels elucidation of the four causes of Nice Girl Syndrome and the Seven Types of Nice Girls (e.g., Doormat, Pretender, Prude, Enlightened One) deeply funny and familiar. . . . This book will challenge, entertain, and empower its readers." Publishers Weekly (starred review) For The Emotionally Abusive Relationship "A good, solid treatment of an insidious but all-too-common type of relationship in which the weapons are words and moods rather than the fist, but which do just as much damage. Most importantly, Ms. Engel doesnt just describe she shows us the way out." Susan Forward, Ph.D., author of Emotional Blackmail and Toxic Parents For Loving Him without Losing You "A powerful and practical guide to relationships that every woman should read." Barbara De Angelis , Ph.D., author of Are You the One for Me? and Secrets about Men Every Woman Should Know, How women can overcome the pressure to please others and feel free to be their true selves Are you too nice for your own good? Do family members manipulate you? Do coworkers take advantage of you? If this sounds familiar, read The Nice Girl Syndrome . In this breakthrough guide, renowned author and therapist Beverly Engel, who has helped thousands of women recognize and leave emotionally abusive relationships, can show you how to take control of your life and take care of yourself. Engel explains that women today simply cannot afford to be Nice Girls, because women who are too nice send the message that they are easy targets and are much more likely to be victimized emotionally, physically, and sexually. She identifies the seven different types of Nice Girls and helps you understand which type or types might apply to you. Engel helps you determine whether the Nice Girl Syndrome is keeping you in an abusive relationship or in manipulative situations and helps you change Nice Girl beliefs and behaviors that are holding you back. Shows you how to confront the beliefs and behaviors that keep you stuck in a Nice Girl act as you replace them with healthier, more empowering ones Includes inspiring stories of women Engel has worked with who have found the courage and strength to stop taking abuse and start standing up for themselves This book will challenge, entertain, and empower its readers.-- Publishers Weekly (starred review) Written by renowned author and therapist Beverly Engel, who has helped thousands of women recognize and leave emotionally abusive relationships Filled with wise advice, powerful exercises, and practical prescriptions, The Nice Girl Syndrome shows you step by step how to take control of your life and be your own strong woman., How women can overcome the pressure to please others and feel free to be their true selves Are you too nice for your own good? Do family members manipulate you? Do coworkers take advantage of you? If this sounds familiar, read The Nice Girl Syndrome . In this breakthrough guide, renowned author and therapist Beverly Engel, who has helped thousands of women recognize and leave emotionally abusive relationships, can show you how to take control of your life and take care of yourself. Engel explains that women today simply cannot afford to be Nice Girls, because women who are too nice send the message that they are easy targets and are much more likely to be victimized emotionally, physically, and sexually. She identifies the seven different types of Nice Girls and helps you understand which type or types might apply to you. Engel helps you determine whether the Nice Girl Syndrome is keeping you in an abusive relationship or in manipulative situations and helps you change Nice Girl beliefs and behaviors that are holding you back. Shows you how to confront the beliefs and behaviors that keep you stuck in a Nice Girl act as you replace them with healthier, more empowering ones Includes inspiring stories of women Engel has worked with who have found the courage and strength to stop taking abuse and start standing up for themselves "This book will challenge, entertain, and empower its readers."-- Publishers Weekly (starred review) Written by renowned author and therapist Beverly Engel, who has helped thousands of women recognize and leave emotionally abusive relationships Filled with wise advice, powerful exercises, and practical prescriptions, The Nice Girl Syndrome shows you step by step how to take control of your life and be your own strong woman.
LC Classification NumberHQ1221.E54 2008
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