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ISBN-101093180862
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Book TitlePsychology Behind the Cuckold Fetish : How It's Caused, What It Means about You, and How to Change
Number of Pages258 Pages
LanguageEnglish
TopicHuman Sexuality (See Also Social Science / Human Sexuality)
Publication Year2019
GenrePsychology
AuthorConnor Mcgonigal
FormatTrade Paperback
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SynopsisThere's nothing wrong with having a fetish; they're just sexual desires that society frowns upon, and that shouldn't stop you if you're happy. This book is written with that in mind, but mainly aimed at those who aren't happy, or those who are curious enough to investigate their psychology and understand themselves. Over the years, researchers in psychology have found success in many methods of changing or removing problematic sexual desires, and these are reviewed in this fully referenced, evidence-based self-help book.The distinctive feature of the cuckold fetish is that it involves being cheated on, right in front of you. The pain of infidelity and the humiliating feeling of inadequacy are what constitute this fetish. 'For some reason', this fetish turns the feeling of inadequacy into sexual pleasure. The possible explanations for this are reviewed in chapter 1, before chapter 2 explores this concept of inadequacy more deeply. The cuckold fetish turns painful deep-rooted fears of inadequacy and a subconscious sense of inadequacy into sexual pleasure. This is linked to the optional interracial element, as well as fetishes for humiliation, chastity, emasculation/feminization, and more. Most importantly of all, it's about the woman enjoying it, loving every second, losing control, and moaning more than ever, because that's what triggers the sense of inadequacy. By understanding these fears and feelings, we understand ourselves, and learn the unconscious drivers for most of our actions in life.Chapter 3 explores the way these deep-rooted fears and feelings can affect your life; causing all sorts of behaviors, like: addictions (alcoholism, drugs, gambling, or porn). Obsessive self-improvement (work, money, dieting/bodybuilding, or knowledge). Escapism (excessive video games, TV, Films, intellectualization). Grandiose fantasies, as well as occasional subhuman perceptions; an unstable sense of self. Underachieving, procrastinating, overachieving, perfectionism. Chapter 4 is all about how this subconscious inadequacy formed in the first place: it's initially formed in early childhood. Many factors affect it, such as not having privacy, attention, control, or security, unemotional fathers, absent fathers, workaholic fathers, alcoholic parents, physical punishment, needy parents, or narcissistic parents. Other factors throughout life can affect it too, such as culture and relationships, and being cheated on in the past. You've probably either attracted 'crazy' girlfriends that you're avoidant to, or distant/cold girlfriends that you're too needy to.Chapter 5 is about taking action. Numerous practical steps are presented to change your fetish, in both the short and the long term, from all angles in psychology including behavioral, psychodynamic, social, physiological, and humanistic. As with the rest of this book, significant statements are referenced and backed up with appropriate sources, which are listed at the end of the book.Debut self-help author and experienced fetish researcher Connor McGonigal guides you through the multi-step process to understand and overcome the causative psychology of the cuckold fantasy, refined by years of coaching men 1-on-1, and his self-help video course of the same name. This book is about using your fetish to understand yourself - the most fundamental aspects of your psychology - and being able to grow as a person, whether you want to change your fetish with it or not. Fetishes can naturally come and go over the course of our lifetimes, because we change and grow as people. Sometimes, the fears and self-image that we had at one point in our lives is completely different from today, and as a result, our sexual fantasies change to match.This book is about speeding up that process - understanding 'subconscious inadequacy', and overcoming it., There's nothing wrong with having a fetish; they're just sexual desires that society frowns upon, and that shouldn't stop you if you're happy. This book is written with that in mind, but mainly aimed at those who aren't happy. Fetishes can cause intense feelings of shame, and can [wrongly] make people feel weird, unlovable, worthless, or less desirable. Fetishes can even prevent a healthy sex life, by overwhelming your sex drive and leave you unable to enjoy 'normal' sex, maybe even decreasing your normal sex drive altogether. Perhaps most of all, you may never want to be cuckolded in real life - because it stands against everything you want from your relationships! Your sexual desires are so in conflict with what you actually want, that it makes you sad, angry, or you feel like you simply need to change. If so, this book is for you. Over the years, researchers in psychology have found success in many methods of changing, reducing, or removing problematic sexual desires, and these are reviewed in this fully referenced, evidence-based self-help book. Chapter 1 explains the reason why the hurtful, painful scenario of cuckolding gets turned into sexual pleasure. Chapter 2 explains how this reason forms in your brain, as opposed to other people's brains. Chapter 3 explores the consequences of this, and how it affects your life, and creates a self-sustaining loop that keeps it there until you change something. Chapter 4 is about how it's affected by your childhood and other life experiences like previous relationships (especially painful ones) or being cheated on. Finally, Chapter 5 is all about everything you can do to change this. Numerous practical steps are presented to change your fetish, in both the short and the long term, from all angles in psychology including behavioral, psychodynamic, social, physiological, and humanistic. As with all of this book, significant statements are referenced and backed up with appropriate sources, which are listed at the end of the book. Experienced fetish researcher Connor McGonigal guides you through the multi-step process to understand and overcome the psychology of the cuckold fantasy, refined by years of coaching men 1-on-1, and his encyclopedic knowledge of the science in this area. With an emphasis on drawing from books, studies, and references as opposed to personal opinion and speculation, this book is an evidence-based collection of information on how to change your fetish so that you can have a normal, healthy, enjoyable sex life. You'll learn that fetishes and kinks are caused by our deepest fears, feelings, and beliefs, and that all you have to do to change is to identify those fears, feelings, and beliefs, and change them. Fetishes can naturally come and go over the course of our lifetimes, because we change and grow as people. Sometimes, the fears and self-image that we had at one point in our lives is completely different from today, and as a result, our sexual fantasies change to match. This book is about speeding up that process - understanding the cause of the cuckold fetish, and overcoming it, so that you can reduce your arousal to it. If your cuckold fetish is preventing you from having a normal sex life, or feeling truly comfortable in a romantic relationship, or if your fetish has evolved to the point where it has become an identity that you don't want and don't agree with, then this book is for you.
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