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Decoding Boys : New Science Behind the Subtle Art of Raising Sons by Cara Natterson (2021, Trade Paperback)

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Decoding Boys: New Science Behind the Subtle Art of Raising Sons by Natterson, Cara [Paperback]

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Product Identifiers

PublisherRandom House Publishing Group

ISBN-101984819054

ISBN-139781984819055

eBay Product ID (ePID)8050422907

Product Key Features

Book TitleDecoding Boys : New Science Behind the Subtle Art of Raising Sons

Number of Pages256 Pages

LanguageEnglish

Publication Year2021

TopicParenting / General, General, Life Stages / Teenagers, Life Stages / School Age

GenreFamily & Relationships, Psychology

AuthorCara Natterson

FormatTrade Paperback

Dimensions

Item Height0.5 in

Item Weight6.6 Oz

Item Length8 in

Item Width5.2 in

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Intended AudienceTrade

LCCN2019-037589

Dewey Edition23

Reviews"We know boys need our support to grow up safe, healthy, happy, and emotionally whole. But how do we provide that when faced with their adolescent silence? Decoding Boys to the rescue! Dr. Natterson's practical, wise insight (undergirded by hard science) into young men's development is absolutely essential reading for anyone with a boy in their life!" --Peggy Orenstein, author of Boy & Sex " Decoding Boys offers remarkable scientific insight as to why teenage boys seem to shut down and behave antisocially once they enter puberty. We would say we wish this book was around when we were teenagers, but we were too busy playing videogames, underage drinking, and lying to our parents to read." --Nick Kroll & Andrew Goldberg, co-creators of Big Mouth "Fifty years ago the publication of Our Bodies, Ourselves lifted women up by replacing ignorance and prejudice with knowledge and the power of sisterhood. Decoding Boys is equally revolutionary in its mission to help us understand the nuances of how boys develop. Natterson's warm, candid, and conversational style gives us a vibrant, page-turning deep dive into both their emotional and physical growth; hers is an authoritative and passionate voice. I finished reading this book enlightened and excited to share it with parents of boys everywhere." --Wendy Mogel, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling author of The Blessing of a Skinned Knee and The Blessing of a B Minus "Decoding Boys debunks the widespread myth of the inscrutable teenage boy. Dr. Cara Natterson illuminates boys' inner lives, details the pressures they face from the outside world, and teaches parents how to effectively engage and support their adolescent sons. Decoding Boys is clear, wise, and eye-opening. If you're raising a boy, you need this brilliant book." --Lisa Damour, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling author of Untangled and Under Pressure "For every parent who asks me how to get their son to say more than 'I'm fine,' I now have an answer: read Decoding Boys and absorb Cara Natterson's wise, thoughtful, compassionate, and informed advice. It will empower parents to have better relationships with their sons and guide them to become confident, honorable young men." --Rosalind Wiseman, New York Times bestselling author of Queen Bees and Wannabes " Decoding Boys is the ultimate guide to help you understand and raise your boys with acceptance and perspective. Reading it is like having an empathetic, really smart friend who totally gets what you are going through and is helpful every step of the way!" --Mallika Chopra, author of Living with Intent "Decoding Boys is the book we've been waiting for! Dr. Cara Natterson tackles the topics that are difficult for parents to understand, let alone discuss with their children. She demystifies the complex science of male puberty and delivers sound advice for any adult living with--and wanting to support--an increasingly silent teenage boy." --Louise Greenspan, M.D., coauthor of The New Puberty: How to Navigate Early Development in Today's Girls

Dewey Decimal649.132

Synopsis"If you're raising a boy, you need this brilliant book. It is clear, wise, and eye-opening." --Lisa Damour, Ph.D., author of Untangled When boys enter puberty, they tend to get quiet--or at least quieter than before--and parents often misread their signals. Here's how to navigate their retreat and steer them through this confusing passage, by the bestselling author of The Care and Keeping of You series and Guy Stuff : The Body Book for Boys. What is my son doing behind his constantly closed door? What's with his curt responses, impulsiveness, newfound obsession with gaming, and . . . that funky smell? As pediatrician and mother of two teenagers Cara Natterson explains, puberty starts in boys long before any visible signs appear, and that causes confusion about their changing temperaments for boys and parents alike. Often, they also grow quieter as they grow taller, which leads to less parent-child communication. But, as Natterson warns in Decoding Boys , we respect their increasing "need" for privacy, monosyllabic conversations, and alone time at their peril. Explaining how modern culture mixes badly with male adolescent biology, Natterson offers science, strategies, scripts, and tips for getting it right: * recognizing the first signs of puberty and talking to our sons about the wide range of "normal" through the whole developmental process * why teenagers make irrational decisions even though they look mature--and how to steer them toward better choices * managing video game and screen time, including discussing the unrealistic and dangerous nature of pornography * why boys need emotional and physical contact with parents--and how to give it in ways they'll accept * how to prepare boys to resist both old and new social pressures--drugs, alcohol, vaping, and sexting * teaching consent and sensitivity in the #MeToo culture Decoding Boys is a powerful and validating lifeline, a book that will help today's parents keep their sons safe, healthy, and resilient, as well as ensure they will become emotionally secure young men. Praise for Decoding Boys "Comforting . . . a common-sensical and gently humorous exploration of male puberty's many trials." -- Kirkus Reviews, "If you're raising a boy, you need this brilliant book. It is clear, wise, and eye-opening." --Lisa Damour, Ph.D., author of Untangled When boys enter puberty, they tend to get quiet--or at least quieter than before--and parents often misread their signals. Here's how to navigate their retreat and steer them through this confusing passage, by the bestselling author of The Care and Keeping of You series and Guy Stuff The Body Book for Boys. What is my son doing behind his constantly closed door? What's with his curt responses, impulsiveness, newfound obsession with gaming, and . . . that funky smell? As pediatrician and mother of two teenagers Cara Natterson explains, puberty starts in boys long before any visible signs appear, and that causes confusion about their changing temperaments for boys and parents alike. Often, they also grow quieter as they grow taller, which leads to less parent-child communication. But, as Natterson warns in Decoding Boys , we respect their increasing "need" for privacy, monosyllabic conversations, and alone time at their peril. Explaining how modern culture mixes badly with male adolescent biology, Natterson offers science, strategies, scripts, and tips for getting it right: - recognizing the first signs of puberty and talking to our sons about the wide range of "normal" through the whole developmental process - why teenagers make irrational decisions even though they look mature--and how to steer them toward better choices - managing video game and screen time, including discussing the unrealistic and dangerous nature of pornography - why boys need emotional and physical contact with parents--and how to give it in ways they'll accept - how to prepare boys to resist both old and new social pressures--drugs, alcohol, vaping, and sexting - teaching consent and sensitivity in the #MeToo culture Decoding Boys is a powerful and validating lifeline, a book that will help today's parents keep their sons safe, healthy, and resilient, as well as ensure they will become emotionally secure young men. Praise for Decoding Boys "Comforting . . . a common-sensical and gently humorous exploration of male puberty's many trials." -- Kirkus Reviews, Puberty starts in boys long before any visible signs appear, and that causes confusion about their changing temperaments for boys and parents alike. Often boys also grow quieter as they grow taller, which leads to less parent-child communication. But as pediatrician and mother Dr. Cara Natterson warns, we respect their increasing "need" for privacy, monosyllabic conversations, and alone time at their peril. Explaining how modern culture mixes badly with male adolescent biology, Dr. Natterson offers science, strategies, scripts, and tips for getting it right. From teaching consent and sensitivity to helping boys navigate peer pressure, screen time, and their own changing bodies, Decoding Boys is a book that will help today's parents keep their sons safe, healthy, and resilient while also ensuring that they become emotionally secure young men. Book jacket.

LC Classification NumberBF724.2.N38 2020